You mean this kid made some of the same mistakes most of us made in college?
Burn him at the stake!
"...if a situation starts to go bad, you leave because that other guy out on the streets doesn't get to play in the stadium on Saturday, you do. When they write about it in the paper, it'll say so-and-so who plays this position at Texas Tech, who went to such-and-such high school and is from this town got into a fight with an unidentified male. They call him an unidentified male because he doesn't get to play in Jones Stadium..... There's a different standard for you. I don't care if it's fair.i don't care what he said. I don't care what kind of names he called you or what he might've said about someone in your family. It doesn't matter. You leave." Swing Your Sword pg 132