The older I get (43) the more time elapses between seeing old friends. It's getting to the point, that the juice isn't even worth the squeeze. Mins compounded over time to stay connected to someone you used to be close to, just to on occasion reconnect irl for a few hours.
Currently feeling a certain way about a cat that I've known well over 25 yrs. Used to be my roommate for 4. Anyhow we were supposed to go to a concert together last week (first time hanging in 8-9 months. Cat completely "forgot" about it and booked a weekend getaway with his wife. Ok thanks breh, this is about the 4-5 flaking since I've known em.
I ended up being pissed and just flipped the concert ticket, as half the reason I even wanted to go is to hang out. It's an excuse to keep the friendship alive. Nevertheless, no "hey man I goofed let me make it up, or yea let's do this yadda " The icing on the cake, same night of the concert he sends a text "I'm sooooo drunkkkk where am I?" Complete lack of self awareness.
I'm not trying to sound like a sissy over this, but the lack of reciprocity in a friendship is disheartening. Makes me want to pull the plug on the whole concept. Thankfully got a ride or die wife, can't say I got one of those in the friends dept.
Discuss, or call me a sissy if you wish.
Currently feeling a certain way about a cat that I've known well over 25 yrs. Used to be my roommate for 4. Anyhow we were supposed to go to a concert together last week (first time hanging in 8-9 months. Cat completely "forgot" about it and booked a weekend getaway with his wife. Ok thanks breh, this is about the 4-5 flaking since I've known em.
I ended up being pissed and just flipped the concert ticket, as half the reason I even wanted to go is to hang out. It's an excuse to keep the friendship alive. Nevertheless, no "hey man I goofed let me make it up, or yea let's do this yadda " The icing on the cake, same night of the concert he sends a text "I'm sooooo drunkkkk where am I?" Complete lack of self awareness.
I'm not trying to sound like a sissy over this, but the lack of reciprocity in a friendship is disheartening. Makes me want to pull the plug on the whole concept. Thankfully got a ride or die wife, can't say I got one of those in the friends dept.
Discuss, or call me a sissy if you wish.