jwoodmd said:
Ags4DaWin said:
Okay let me break it down for you.
Modern, Single Women screech constantly that they cannot find a good man.
Ask a woman what a good man is and most will say
1) Loyal
2) protective of her and the children
3) willing to sacrifice of himself for her good and the good of the children
4) willing to work as hard as necessary to provide
5) takes an active role in the relationship and rearing of children
Well that is how traditional men behave.
If a burglar comes into the house at night, a "good man" is the one who will be the first to the door risking life and limb to protect his family and wife.
Now as a man....why would I be willing to sacrifice THAT much of who I am for a woman who is unwilling to even make the symbolic gesture of giving herself to me by taking my last name.
The traditional definition of a good man and the kind of man women profess to want is one who will sacrifice everything he is up to and if necessary including his life for his wife and family.
Women expect that and want that blanket of security and protection. They want to be able to depend on their man for that.
And in the same breath they are unwilling to take his name to tell him and the world that she is his to protect, defend, love, and provide for.
It's no wonder modern men don't want to be in relationships when that is the expectation of the modern American woman.
Women want all the perks but are unwilling to even make symbolic gestures that would make a man want to take care of them.
Sorry....if you don't want to be mine in the sense that we have the same last name then I don't feel a single ounce of obligation to behave as if you were mine.
And by that I mean mine to cherish, protect, respect, and love to my dying breath. And as a man this is what the good ones want to do. Women, you don't get it both ways. You can be independent and have a man who treats you like an independent woman. Or you can have a man who wants to be yours and wants you to be his and lose that independence.
And that is where the disconnect in the modern world is happening.
You think I am banal.
I think you are an pseudointellectual hiding behind the facade of being enlightened when really u just have no clue how the world works.
That's cool and alright. I have about the same contempt for u as u do me. Even though ur positions are bad, i could respect u jf you could at least make the effort of articulating your opinion instead of just demeaning others. But ur just arrogant and lazy about your positions and that is 100% absolutely contemptible.
7 edit midnight rant. Sure intense, you are (sorry u r based on ur above writing)
Not intense. Trying accurately articulate my opinion so it couldn't be twisted to mean something it didn't.
Also I have fat fingers and my autocorrect sucks so sometimes I go back and spell check. Aaaand I just switched several time zones and was adjusting to that so I had a little insomnia.
But hey, thanks for proving my point about your only response to a well thought out opinion being intellectually lazy condescending dismissal and ad hominems instead of thoughtful discussion.
When someone doesn't have anything thoughtful to say they usually throw around playground insults and pretend like they don't care.
The problem is by throwing out the petty insults u prove u do care...u just don't have anything good to say.
